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Ways to find your  true love

Ways to find your true love15 Ways to Find Your True Love

Finding a true partner for many women and men could be a challenge. And it is true that finding a partner with whom we can grow and feel comfortable can be difficult at any age, as the years go by and our demands and experiences increase, the matter can become more difficult. Are you in exactly this situation? At we give you 15 ways to find your true love with success and without despair. You don’t want to miss any of the tips

Everyone needs true love in their life. True love is what people need to feel secure and comfortable, even when things are not going the way they expected. It doesn’t have to be perfect; it just has to show up for you every day of your life so that you can fulfill your purpose on this earth!

Read also: 5 Unconventional Ways to Find Your Life Purpose

Tip to Find your life partner

To ensure that you won’t get hurt in your next relationship, make sure it’s with someone who truly loves and cares about you. You can avoid heartache by finding the right person before entering a new relationship!

  1. Start praying for the right person.

If we allow God to guide us through our process of finding love, He will lead us to the right path and thus help us avoid falling for the wrong person. Praying for wisdom is an easy way to do this without making a mistake that could hurt you badly and cause other problems too.

2. Strive to reach your highest potentials.

Finding the ‘best person is not easy. You need to find someone who can be best for you, rather than focusing on your idea of what a ‘perfect partner should look like or do.

Ideally, everyone should be striving to improve themselves so that they can bring the best version of themself into any relationship which might come their way. It will also help individuals decide whether or not another person would make for an ideal partner as well!

3. Be attractive

Everyone desires someone that is clean and presentable. Look and smell good always, keeping in mind that getting noticed is the first step towards feeling romantic about someone else. Next, accentuate your best features or parts of the body while accepting flaws with a creative mindset (rather than hiding them).

4. Determine what you really want in a partner.

To find a good partner, it is important to know what kind of traits you are looking for in your true love. It will help you determine if they possess these qualities and whether or not the person would suit them as their significant other. Keep in mind that there is no perfect partner anywhere—it’s just reality!

The best part about setting standards is it’s a way to remind yourself of what you don’t want in your future partner. You’ll remember the traits that didn’t work well with your previous relationship, which led to broken relationships. If you haven’t experienced love yet, use past experiences dealing with family and friends for this!

5. Don’t isolate yourself

Meeting your soulmate isn’t just about luck. It’s also a matter of being social with friends, attending events, and joining meaningful clubs or associations so you can meet new people frequently to increase your chances of finding the one for you! Be with the right company.

The kind of people someone surrounds themselves with determines the quality and type of person they will be attracted to. It is therefore important for one’s self-improvement, whether it is personally or professionally, that a high standard in terms of friends should always be upheld.

6. Stop setting unrealistic expectations

It’s important to note that true love in real life is not as overwhelming or grandiose as it might seem when compared with the perfect romance of movies and books. Real couples are less fanciful than their fictional counterparts, so don’t keep looking for unrealistic expectations!

7. Do not focus on physical appearance.

When it comes to choosing a significant other, be sure that they make you feel secure and comfortable in your relationship. Look for someone who displays good character traits and possesses values similar to yours. Don’t fall into the trap of focusing on physical appearance above all else when trying to find love!

8. See if your personality complements each other.

Never underestimate the need to trust God for someone with a personality that matches yours. This will make it easier to form an emotional connection and less likely the relationship ends due to irreconcilable differences. Personality can be balanced or imbalanced, so you’ll want your partner’s personality profile to fit in with who you are naturally too!

9. Look for a person with similar priorities as yours.

A husband and wife’s priorities could affect their relationship. If they have different ideas about which comes first, it can be a problem for them to understand each other. For example, I once dated a lady whose priority was a far distance from mine and so, the relationship couldn’t work out. My priority was about fulfilling my calling and finishing well on my God’s ordained assignment, while hers was living an extravagant life. Thank God I was wise enough to see the danger in our future home if we should get married with such diverse priorities, and let go of the relationship.

Today, I am enjoying my marriage, and fulfilling my ministry because God eventually gave me a woman with the same priority as mine.

10. Find someone who respects you.

Before you can fall in love, find someone who respects your feelings. This is important because they will be careful not to hurt you and keep that love alive.

I have seen homes where the wives are living more unless second-class citizens in their marriages because their partners see no reason to respect them. So also have I seen young singles staying in abusive relationships.

Listen to me young singles, a man or a lady that would not respect you when you are dating will likely not do so if you ended up marrying each other. Never fall for the assumption that marriage will change him/her. As a matter of fact, marriage doesn’t change anyone.

Mutual respect is vital in building a successful relationship.

11. Seek counsel from your family or friends.

It’s best to introduce your new love interest to family, pastor, and friends before getting into a serious relationship. When you’re in love, it can be difficult for anyone or anything else to get through; this is why letting people close give their two cents may help prevent future problems down the road.

The good thing about this is that God may use their counsel to save you from would-be marital frustration. Many people that jumped into relationships thinking they are sufficient to make this decision on their own often ended up in great disappointment.

Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counselors, there is safety. Proverbs 11:14.

Don’t be a lone ranger in your bid of making decisions on who to spend the rest of your life with.

12. Meet their family and friends.

In order to really get to know someone better, you need to meet their family and friends. Watch how they treat each other because it shows a lot about the person’s character.

13. Test it with time.

After the initial excitement of attraction, couples begin to navigate through conflict as they attempt to understand each other. These conflicts could last up for three years before a couple begins settling into their relationship and understanding one another more fully.

While many relationships become monotonous after a period of time, if you can make it through the years together and still find your passion for one another then there’s no doubt that you’re in love.

14. Do not make decisions based on mere feelings.

True love goes beyond feelings. You have to use your head and think carefully before you accept someone into your life.

Love is a beautiful, overwhelming feeling. There are many different factors you should take into consideration when deciding on whether or not to love someone back. Look at the previous tips for inspiration and guidance; make your decision carefully!

15. Be Unique

Don’t fake anything because you want to attract anyone. Be yourself and live your life. I have seen many singles living fake lives. Such life will only attract nothing but a fake person to you. You need to be original to attract the original.

Check out this video on how to find true love

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Kehinde Pius

I'm Kehinde Pius, a missionary with a burning passion for the lost. I'm a Church planter, Digital ministry mentors coach, freelance write, and blogger. Pius with his wife reside in Abeokuta, Ogun State, Nigeria

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